A Unique Valentine’s Day Cake Idea – Rich & Aromatic

If you are looking to make something different this Valentine’s Day then this Sri Lankan Love Cake is the perfect Valentine’s Day cake. It is rich, moist, and full of warm, aromatic flavors. The name says it all—this cake is a delicious way to celebrate love.

Watch my video below for a simple, step-by-step recipe to create this rich and aromatic Valentine’s Day Cake – Sri Lankan Love Cake. If you love this recipe, don’t forget to like and subscribe for more delicious baking ideas!


Why You’ll Fall in Love with Sri Lankan Love Cake

Valentine's Day Cake - Sri Lankan Love Cake
  • A Cake with History – This Sri Lankan Love Cake isn’t just any cake. It’s been passed down through generations, made with love and tradition. To me, that makes it even more special.
  • Warm, Aromatic Spices – The mix of cardamom, cinnamon, and nutmeg makes every bite feel cozy, like a warm hug in cake form.
  • Rich and Moist – Thanks to semolina and butter, this cake has a dense yet soft texture that just melts in your mouth.
  • A Hint of Rose Water – It adds the perfect floral note, making each bite feel just a little more luxurious.
  • Cashews for a Crunch – What I love about this cake is the finely chopped cashews—they add the perfect bit of texture and a nutty depth of flavor.
  • Naturally Sweetened – The mix of brown sugar and honey gives it a deep, caramel-like sweetness that’s just right—not too much, not too little.
  • Slow-Baked Perfection – This Sri Lanka Love Cake is baked low and slow, which makes the flavors develop beautifully. Trust me, it’s worth the wait!
  • The Ultimate Valentine’s Day Cake – If you ask me, this is one of the most romantic cakes you can bake. It’s homemade, unique, and made to be shared with someone special.

What You Need to Make Sri Lankan Love Cake

If you ask me, the best cakes are the ones with simple ingredients that create big flavors—just like this one! Warm spices, buttery semolina, and crunchy cashews come together to make a cake that’s rich, fragrant, and perfect for sharing.

Valentine's Day Cake - Sri Lankan Love Cake
  • 1 cup (125 grams) semolina
  • 6 tablespoons (90 grams) unsalted butter, softened
  • 3 large eggs, separated
  • 1/2 cup (125 grams) brown sugar
  • 1 tablespoon (20 grams) honey
  • 1/4 teaspoon (0.5 grams) ground cardamom
  • 1/4 teaspoon (0.5 grams) ground cinnamon
  • 1/4 teaspoon (0.5 grams) freshly grated nutmeg
  • Zest of 1 lime
  • 1 cup (125 grams) cashews, finely chopped
  • A pinch of salt
  • 1 tablespoon (15 grams) butter, for greasing the pan
  • 1 tablespoon (15 milliliters) rose water


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Quick Note – No Rose Water? No Problem! If you don’t have rose water, a splash of orange blossom water or even vanilla extract can add a lovely floral note.

Let’s Make This Valentine’s Day Cake

Want to bake a cake that’s rich, fragrant, and full of warmth? Let me walk you through exactly how to make Sri Lankan Love Cake step by step. With just a few simple ingredients and a little patience, you’ll create the perfect treat for a romantic Valentine’s Day!

Prepare the Baking Pan

Step 1: Toast the Semolina
First things first—grab a dry pan and toast the semolina over low heat. Keep stirring! You’ll know it’s ready when it turns light golden brown and smells warm and nutty. This step gives the cake that slightly chewy yet delicate texture. Once toasted, transfer it to a bowl and let it cool.

Pro Tip: You Can Make It Gluten-Free! Swap the semolina for almond flour to make a gluten-free version that’s just as rich and delicious.

Step 2: Mix the Butter and Semolina
Now for the magic. Take the softened butter and mix it into the cooled semolina. Keep stirring until it turns soft and crumbly. This little trick is what makes the cake rich but not too heavy.

Step 3: Beat the Egg Yolks and Sugar
In a separate bowl, whisk together the egg yolks and brown sugar. If you’ve got an electric mixer, even better—beat until the mixture turns pale, creamy, and fluffy. This helps the cake stay light despite its richness.

Step 4: Add Aromatic Flavors
Now comes my favorite part—the warm spices. Stir in the honey, cardamom, cinnamon, semolina and butter mixture, rose water, lime zest, and freshly grated nutmeg. The scent alone is pure heaven!

Step 5: Add the Cashews
Roughly chop the cashews, then crush them with a mortar and pestle until they’re coarsely ground—some small chunks are perfect for texture. Gently fold them into the batter with a spatula, making sure they’re evenly distributed.

Step 6: Whip the Egg Whites
In a clean bowl, beat the egg whites until they hold stiff peaks. Start slow, then gradually increase the speed. This will help give the cake a light, airy texture.

Step 7: Fold in the Egg Whites
Gently fold a little of the beaten egg whites into the batter to lighten it up, then add the rest in two parts. Be careful not to overmix—you want to keep all that lovely air inside!

Step 8: Prepare the Pan
Grease a baking pan generously with butter. If you’re using a Bundt pan, make sure to coat every groove so the cake doesn’t stick.

Step 9: Pour and Bake
Pour the batter into the prepared pan and spread it evenly. Tap the pan gently on the counter to release any air bubbles. Bake in a preheated oven at 150 degrees Celsius or 300 degrees Fahrenheit—this cake is all about slow baking for the best texture. You’ll know it’s ready when the top turns golden and a skewer inserted in the center comes out clean.

Step 10: Cool and Serve
Let the cake cool in the pan for a bit before transferring it to a wire rack. If you can, resist cutting into it right away—the flavors get even better as the cake sits. Slice, serve, and enjoy with a cup of tea or coffee!

Top Tip: One thing I always do? I bake it the night before because the flavors deepen beautifully by the next day. Trust me, it’s worth the wait!

Want the perfect pairing? Try pairing this with my easy 2-ingredient ice cream—perfect combo!

Valentine’s Day Cake That’s Full of Love

Recipe by Jen Evansy
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Course: DessertCuisine: Sri LankanDifficulty: Medium
Servings

8

servings
Prep Time

20

minutes
Baking Time

1

hour 
Calories

350

kcal
Total Time

1

hour 

20

minutes

Sri Lankan Love Cake feels like the perfect Valentine’s treat—rich, warm, and full of spice. The mix of buttery semolina, cashews, and fragrant flavors makes it something special. Whether you’re sharing or just treating yourself, it’s a cake made for love.

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Ingredients

  • 1 cup (125 grams) semolina

  • 6 tablespoons (90 grams) unsalted butter, softened

  • 3 large eggs, separated

  • 1/2 cup (125 grams) brown sugar

  • 1 tablespoon (20 grams) honey

  • 1/4 teaspoon (0.5 grams) ground cardamom

  • 1/4 teaspoon (0.5 grams) ground cinnamon

  • 1/4 tablespoon (15 milliliters) rose water

  • 1/4 teaspoon (0.5 grams) freshly grated nutmeg

  • 1 piece lime

  • 1 cup (125 grams) cashews, finely chopped

  • A pinch of salt

  • 1 tablespoon (15 grams) butter, for greasing the pan

Directions

  • Toast the Semolina for Extra Flavor: Dry-toast the semolina over low heat, stirring constantly, until it turns golden and smells nutty. This step enhances the cake’s texture, making it slightly chewy yet soft. Let it cool before using.Toast the Semolina for Extra Flavor
  • Blend Butter into the Semolina: Mix softened butter into the cooled semolina until it becomes crumbly and fully combined. This step gives the cake a rich, buttery texture without making it feel heavy.Blend Butter into the Semolina
  • Whisk the Egg Yolks and Sugar: Beat egg yolks with brown sugar until the mixture is pale, creamy, and smooth. Using an electric mixer helps incorporate air, giving the cake a slightly lighter texture.Whisk the Egg Yolks and Sugar
  • Infuse with Warm Spices: Now comes my favorite part—flavor! Stir in the honey, cardamom, cinnamon, semolina and butter mixture, rose water, lime zest, and freshly grated nutmeg. The moment these ingredients come together, the fragrance alone will make your kitchen smell amazing. Infuse with Warm Spices
  • Fold in the Cashews: Roughly chop the cashews and lightly crush them with a mortar and pestle until they have a coarse texture. Then, gently fold them into the batter, ensuring they’re evenly spread throughout.Fold in the Cashews
  • Whip the Egg Whites: In a clean bowl, beat the egg whites until they form stiff peaks. Start at a slow speed and gradually increase it. This step is key to making the cake a little lighter despite its rich ingredients.
  • Incorporate the Egg Whites: First, fold a small portion of the beaten egg whites into the batter to loosen it up. Then, gently add the rest in batches, being careful not to deflate the air you just whipped in.Incorporate the Egg Whites
  • Prepare the Baking Pan: Grease your baking pan generously with butter. If you’re using a Bundt pan, make sure to coat every groove to prevent sticking. Pour the batter into the prepared pan, smoothing it out evenly. Tap it on the counter a couple of times to remove any air bubbles. Prepare the Baking Pan
  • Bake to Perfection: Bake in a preheated oven at 150°C (300°F) until the top turns golden brown and a skewer inserted in the center comes out clean.Bake to Perfection
  • Cool and Enjoy: Let the cake rest in the pan for a while before transferring it to a wire rack. If you ask me, the hardest part is waiting! But trust me, this cake tastes even better after it sits for a few hours—or even overnight. Slice it up, serve with tea or coffee, and enjoy!Valentine's Day Cake - Sri Lankan Love Cake

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Notes

  • Let the Batter Rest – One thing I always do is let the batter sit for about 30 minutes before baking. This helps the semolina absorb the moisture, making the texture even softer and richer. If you have time, try it—you’ll notice the difference!
  • Use Freshly Ground Cardamom – Pre-ground cardamom just doesn’t have the same punch. If you ask me, the best way to get that deep, fragrant flavor is to crush whole cardamom pods yourself. The aroma is unreal!
  • Don’t Overbake It – This cake is meant to be moist and dense, so keep an eye on it while it bakes. If the edges start pulling away from the pan but the center is still soft, that’s the perfect time to take it out. It will firm up as it cools.
  • Age It for Better Flavor – In my opinion, this cake tastes even better the next day. The spices blend beautifully, and the texture becomes even more delicious. If you can resist, let it rest overnight before digging in!
  • Experiment with Nuts – Cashews are traditional, but I’ve tried this with almonds and even pistachios, and the results were amazing. Feel free to mix things up based on what you love!
  • A Touch of Orange – If you love citrus flavors like I do, try adding a little orange zest along with the lime. It gives the cake a fresh, slightly sweet brightness that balances the warm spices beautifully.

Nutrition Facts

  • Total number of serves: 8
  • Calories: 350kcal
  • Fat: 18g
  • Carbohydrates: 40g
  • Protein: 7g

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Related Recipe: Now that you’ve made Sri Lankan Love Cake, try this Sri Lankan Coconut Cake (Bibikkan)here—moist, sweet, and full of warm spice!

How to Make Your Sri Lankan Love Cake Even More Special

Cool and Enjoy
  • Add a touch of orange zest – It blends beautifully with the warm spices and gives the cake an extra layer of freshness.
  • Drizzle with honey – If you love a little extra sweetness, a light drizzle of honey on top before serving makes it even more indulgent.
  • Pair it with tea or coffee – I’d recommend serving it with a cup of chai or a strong espresso—the flavors complement each other perfectly!
  • Try a decorative touch – A dusting of powdered sugar or a sprinkle of crushed nuts can make the cake look as stunning as it tastes.

Sri Lankan Love Cake vs. Other Valentine’s Day Cake Ideas

Fold in the Cashews
  • Not your typical chocolate cake – If you’re looking for something unique this Valentine’s Day, this cake is a refreshing change from the usual chocolate desserts.
  • Rich but not too heavy – Thanks to the combination of cashews, semolina, and spices, this cake is indulgent but won’t leave you feeling weighed down.
  • A one-bowl wonder – No need for fancy techniques or special equipment—just simple ingredients and a little patience!

Can You Customize Sri Lankan Love Cake? Absolutely!

Try different nuts
  • Try different nuts – While cashews are traditional, almonds and pistachios also work beautifully in this recipe.
  • Adjust the spices to your liking – If you love cinnamon, add a little more. Want it extra fragrant? A tiny splash of vanilla extract can be a nice touch.
  • Make it gluten-free – Swap the semolina for a fine almond flour, and you’ll have a naturally gluten-free version that’s just as delicious.

Got a Question or Want to Share Your Experience?

Tried this Sri Lanka Love Cake recipe? I’d love to hear how it turned out! If you have any questions about making this Valentine’s Day cake, drop a comment below or on the YouTube video here—I check those more often, so you’ll get a quicker reply. – Jen

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About Jen Evansy

Nutritionist, researcher, avid home cook, and writer interested in everything nutrition and food-related. Striving to inform, encourage, and inspire all the readers to make healthy and informed choices when it comes to cooking, food, diet, and nutrition.